Somehow it feels like every single one of my friends decided to get married in the fall. So if you need me between now and Thanksgiving, I\u2019ll be at a wedding. I\u2019m not complaining; fall is hands-down the best season to get dressed for<\/a>. The weather actually cooperates, the color palette is moody in the best way, and I finally get to retire the pastels. But no matter how many of these I go to, opening the invite and seeing the dress code still sends me into a small spiral. Cocktail? Formal? What on earth does \u201cfestive fall attire\u201d even mean?<\/p>\n If you know the feeling, I\u2019ve got you covered. The upside of fall weddings is that the whole color story is so rich it does half the work for you, and pulls from the same palette as the rest of your fall wardrobe<\/a>. Most of these dresses will earn their place in your closet long after the reception, too. <\/p>\n Below, I\u2019ve broken down my favorite fall wedding guest dresses by dress code, so you can skip the spiral, find something you\u2019ll actually want to wear again, and get back to the fun part: the open bar and the dance floor. Already shopped our spring<\/a> and summer wedding guest<\/a> roundups? Consider this your seasonal update, plus the shoes, bags, and jewelry to pull it all together.<\/p>\n While some weddings won\u2019t specify\u00a0a dress code, many will. And if the bride and groom take the effort into guiding you to what you should wear, you should take it as a blessing.\u00a0<\/p>\n When you\u2019re given a dress code,\u00a0follow it,\u00a0<\/em>and make sure the attire you\u2019re planning on wearing falls under it. The last thing you want is to show up in a black-tie dress while everyone else is super casual. Or, worse, show up super casual when everyone is dressed for a black-tie event.<\/p>\n If the invitation doesn\u2019t give a dress code, double check the wedding website. And if that still turns up no information, reach out to a bridesmaid to ask (avoid bothering the bride with questions you can get answered elsewhere). If they still don\u2019t know, dress for the location. 95 percent of the time, you aren\u2019t going to show up to a ballroom in a sundress or wear a floor-length gown to a beach wedding.<\/p>\n First things first: \u201ccasual\u201d at a wedding never means the jeans-and-a-tee kind of casual. Think backyard ceremony, vineyard lunch, or a laid-back barn venue. You want to look wedding-ready, but still be able to actually sit in the grass and grab a second slice of cake. <\/p>\n This is my favorite category to shop, because the dresses do double duty<\/a>. A flowy maxi or a slip dress you wear to a September wedding can be the same one you\u2019ll throw on for Thanksgiving at your in-laws\u2019 or a fall date night. Lean into comfy fabrics, and don\u2019t skip a pretty floral or a plaid moment.<\/p>\n Semi-formal is one of the easier wedding dress codes to work with. When you picture a classic wedding guest dress, it most likely falls in the semi-formal category. You don\u2019t need to show up in a gown, but also probably shouldn\u2019t wear the sundress you\u2019ve been living in all summer. Instead, you\u2019ll want to be somewhere in the middle. <\/p>\n I\u2019d reach for a chiffon maxi, a midi with a pretty print, or something in a richer fall color like olive or chocolate brown. This is also a good time to think about the venue. An outdoor ceremony might call for something flowy and comfortable, while a hotel or restaurant gives you an excuse to dress things up a little more. <\/p>\n A formal affair is your green light to really dress up, which\u2014let\u2019s be real\u2014is half the reason we RSVP yes. Formal is a step below black tie, so you have more options than you might think. A longer dress is always an easy choice, but a dressier midi can also work here. <\/p>\n This is where I\u2019d have a little more fun with the details like pleating or a textured accent to make a dress feel worthy of the occasion. Fall also makes it so easy to pick the right dress color. Chocolate brown, mahogany, and charcoal all feel seasonal without screaming wedding. My rule of thumb? If you feel dressed up but don\u2019t look like you\u2019ve accidentally joined the bridal party, you\u2019ve nailed it.<\/p>\n Black tie means a floor-length gown or a seriously elevated maxi, and I say lean all the way in, because how often do you get the excuse? From there, you can really just focus on finding something you love. Maybe that\u2019s a simple satin gown you know you\u2019ll wear again, or maybe it\u2019s finally your excuse for the dramatic ruffles you\u2019d never have a reason to buy otherwise. <\/p>\n Once you have the dress, don\u2019t feel like every other part of the outfit needs to make a statement. A great pair of heels, a clutch, and your favorite jewelry are plenty. Then your only real concern is whether those heels will survive the dance floor.<\/p>\n Once you\u2019ve nailed down the dress, the hard part is over. Accessories are where you get to have a little fun\u2014and no, you don\u2019t need to buy something new in every category. If your dress is on the simpler side, make it a bit more fun with statement shoes, sparkly earrings, or a gorgeous bag. If your dress is already a whole moment on its own, don\u2019t compete with it. Just reach for the heels and jewelry you already know you love. As for your bag,\u00a0make sure it fits your phone, lipstick, and any other essentials (few things are more annoying than carrying the things that don\u2019t fit).\u00a0<\/p>\n While it\u2019s generally better to be over-prepared, the last thing you want at a wedding is to be lugging around stuff you don\u2019t actually need. For example, don\u2019t bring a jacket just on the off-chance you get chilly if you know you aren\u2019t ever going to actually put it on (guilty).<\/p>\n Try to contain everything you\u2019re bringing into a small clutch or crossbody, and avoid carrying around anything that doesn\u2019t fit in it. If you feel like you have to bring a giant bag to carry what you\u2019re planning on bringing, rework it to fit into something smaller. The last thing you want is to be caught in photos with a bag on your shoulder\u00a0and\u00a0<\/em>a bunch of things in your hand (which should be holding a drink anyway!).<\/p>\n This one is a no-brainer, but can also sound like an old-school rule that might not be a thing anymore\u2014but that\u2019s not the case. For best practice, avoid wearing white at all costs. Yes, that includes a floral dress that has a white base color.\u00a0<\/p>\n After an open bar, hours of mingling, and time spent on the dance floor, odds are, you\u2019re going to look your very best at the start of the wedding. If you\u2019re planning on taking pictures to remember the night, do it as early as you can (as long as it\u2019s an appropriate time to do so). This obviously doesn\u2019t apply to taking pictures with the bride and groom; that\u2019s something you should do whenever is best for them.<\/p>\n Something your bride and groom might not want? A million hands up holding a phone, taking photos while the bride is walking down the aisle. If you want to take a few pictures, you should! But don\u2019t spend big moments throughout the night messing around on your phone to post them immediately; instead, take the photos, but post them later on and enjoy the moment.<\/p>\n Let\u2019s be honest: No matter what you do to your hair, after more than six hours of activity, you\u2019re probably going to get to the point where you want to put it up.<\/p>\n Rather than resorting to a black hair tie, pack a special occasion-worthy clip in your bag that you can put your hair up into whenever you\u2019re ready. Rather than looking like you just threw it up, it\u2019ll trick everyone into thinking it was a part of the plan all along and will end up elevating your entire look halfway through the night.<\/p>\n Obviously, this isn\u2019t a hard-and-fast rule, and nobody is going to judge you if you happen to wear something that\u2019s the same color as the bridesmaids\u2019 dresses. But if you know what color they\u2019re wearing and can help it, opt for a dress in a different hue.\u00a0<\/p>\n If you don\u2019t know what color the\u00a0bridesmaids<\/a>\u00a0are wearing, you can likely figure it out by the color scheme of the wedding website and invitations.\u00a0<\/p>\n ABOUT THE AUTHOR<\/p>\n Andrea is a writer and editor with 10+ years of experience in women\u2019s lifestyle and commerce content. She is based in Los Angeles, California, and her work appears in Vogue, Glamour, The Zoe Report, and many more.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n ABOUT THE AUTHOR<\/p>\n As Assistant Managing Editor for The Everygirl, Hailey Tagliarino oversees, writes, and edits content across various categories on the site. From the pitching stage through publishing, she works alongside the team to ensure that the content that our readers see every day is inspiring, relatable, and timely.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n Products included in graphics linked within article. Feature graphic images credited to: ASOS (1)<\/a>, (2)<\/a>, (3)<\/a>, Reformation (1)<\/a>, (2)<\/a>, Free People<\/a>, Anthropologie (1)<\/a>, (2)<\/a>, Tuckernuck<\/a>, Abbie Bythewood | Dupe<\/a>, Candelaria Sartori | Dupe<\/a>, and Marine Fleury | Dupe<\/a><\/em>.<\/p>\nWedding Dress Code Tips<\/span><\/h2>\n
Casual Fall Wedding Guest Dresses<\/span><\/h2>\n
Semi-Formal Fall Wedding Guest Dresses<\/span><\/h2>\n
Formal Fall Wedding Guest Dresses<\/span><\/h2>\n
Black-Tie Fall Wedding Guest Dresses<\/span><\/h2>\n
Fall Wedding Guest Accessories<\/span><\/h2>\n
Shoes<\/span><\/h3>\n
Bags<\/span><\/h3>\n
Jewelry<\/span><\/h3>\n
How to Nail Your Wedding Guest Look<\/span><\/h2>\n
Don\u2019t bring anything you don\u2019t need<\/span><\/h3>\n
Don\u2019t wear white<\/span><\/h3>\n
If you\u2019re taking pictures, do it at the beginning<\/span><\/h3>\n
Consider your social media etiquette<\/span><\/h3>\n
Pack a hair clip (just in case)<\/span><\/h3>\n
Avoid wearing the same color as the bridesmaids<\/span><\/h3>\n
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